I’ve been at home with my little love for three weeks now. I’ve made it through the healing process (invest in some pads, ice packs, and Tucks, girl!) and now the big task is to get on schedule with baby Charlee.

The first couple of weeks wasn’t a huge deal because I was just happy to be able to take care of my baby and heal all at the same time. Then, I started getting a little stir crazy, Adam had gone back to work, and things around the house needed to be done.

I had in my mind that I needed to get everything done in one day. Well, when you have a newborn that’s not likely to happen- and shouldn’t.

After my fail attempt at being superwoman (or supermom), I realized I needed to set some goals for myself. So, I made a list. Whatever I felt like needed to absolutely be accomplished that day would go on my list. Now this may have consisted of two tasks or six. I usually tried not to give myself more than five items because I didn’t want to feel disappointed if I didn’t accomplish all of my goals for the day.

My tasks change from day to day, but it usually consists of at least doing a load of laundry and getting the dishes clean. My favorite goal (but not always achievable) is taking a shower. Mother’s know this is probably the most difficult task when little humans rule the house.

Adam helps in many ways, but when our little peanut is hungry he can’t help in that category because I haven’t started pumping breast milk just yet. Until I can give him a bottle for Charlee it means world record showers for me. So, when Charlee falls asleep it’s a two minute shower for this momma!

Back to the list- mine usually looks like this:

1. Shower (if possible!)
2. Eat Yummy Cantaloupe
3. Load of Laundry
4. Wash Dishes
5. Sweep
6. Call to Schedule Newborn Pictures

And that’s it!

Honestly though, sometimes I only get two things checked off the list- but there are days I can add in another task because I flew through the ones of my list so quickly! It just depends on how you or your little one is feeling that day.

For some mommies, having coffee is a viable part of the day and should be included on the list. It would be for me too, but while breastfeeding it’s made me a little iffy. We don’t want that baby up at all hours of the day and night! Whether it’s coffee, reading a chapter in your favorite book, or just brushing your hair that day- make sure you accomplish something for you. It will keep you sane, and it’s just good to do something for you. My “me” item on the list was to eat the yummy cantaloupe I had been eyeing in my refrigerator for the last two days!

So, my message for you today is to set yourself some goals but to also take it easy on yourself. You’re a new mom- taking care of you baby is the most important. Don’t forget that spending time with him or her should be on your list throughout most of your day. Feeding, playing, talking, hugging, kissing, loving, tummy time, and singing all happen in one day for Charlee. This way she knows I love her and taking care of her will always be more important than making sure the clothes are washed.

Kalyn